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How to Enjoy Meditation Before Bed (Includes 10-step guide)

26 March 2021 By Ntathu Allen Leave a Comment

Have you ever lain awake at night with 101 thoughts racing through your head as you toss and turn, struggling to fall asleep?

If you work from home, have young children, or looking after elderly parents, it can be even more challenging to manage that thin line between work commitments, home responsibilities and tending to self-care.

Learning to unwind, release tension from your body and let go of your thoughts so you can enjoy a good night’s sleep is vital to your health and wellbeing. [Read more…] about How to Enjoy Meditation Before Bed (Includes 10-step guide)

Spiritual Self-Love: How to be Good to Yourself

29 July 2020 By Ntathu Allen 1 Comment

Spiritual self-love is all about being good to yourself, learning to be comfortable in your skin; to love, honour, appreciate and accept all of yourself… The “good parts” and the “not-so-good parts.”

It is to smile in the mirror, love your reflection, hug yourself and quietly accept and know that you will get through all difficulties with grace.

Smiling woman wearing glasses leaning against a tree — be good to yourself

Most women are so focused on caring and tending to others, we forget to put our needs on the table, we eat last, we say “you go first, I’m OK”, and pick up the groceries on the way home after a demanding day at work (pre-Co-vid 19).

What five things you should never start?

27 February 2019 By Ntathu Allen Leave a Comment

Do you believe there are things you should never start?

Maybe you have started something, and with hindsight, wish you never started!

I know I have!

So, when I saw this question “What five things you should never start?” on Quora, I had to answer it!

In case you’re not familiar Quora, I thought I’d share my answer here because I know you are interested in exploring philosophical questions.

So, here is my answer to the question, What five things should you never start? [Read more…] about What five things you should never start?

Poem – to keep you going through hard times

11 September 2018 By Ntathu Allen 2 Comments

Hugs gentle soul, am sitting here, reflecting on how I kept going through hard times as I listen to a personal development podcast.

Like me, I know you are determined to look after yourself and do your thing.

And at times it is a challenge to find out exactly what you should be doing and how to do it!

That’s OK, just keep believing in your dreams, show up, do your daily meditation or morning practices and the next step will reveal itself.

Sometimes, even when the next step is shown, it takes courage to TAKE that step.

Again, it is OK. Just breathe, be gentle with yourself and trust.

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How to keep going through hard times

Today’s poem, “Weep No More” is taken from my deeply personal book, Healing After Loss, and offered to remind you of your greatness, to breathe through hard times and to let you know you can do this.

Weep No More
My sister as you sojourn, keep these few words in your heart.
“we come into this world to follow a pre-ordained path.
We grow.
Some of us from birth acknowledge ourselves
And shine our Love and Light.
Others now.
Grow through the jungle of materialism,
Nihilism, bondage and hierarchy.
They surround themselves with baggage from the past,
Ladled with thoughts from the future.
They stagnate and sink slowly, invisibly to the bottom,
Some of us stay there afraid to venture out
Afraid of our light, Our Power and Glory.
Others now.
Rest awhile
Venture out and reclaim their pre-ordained destiny.
Sister, when you are experiencing moments of uncertainity
Pause. Center. Tune in
That’s the way to serenity
The journey of longitivity. True health and harmony
Sister:
Rise above the “I’m tiredness”.
Transcend the “No, I’ve got no money”
Step over the “Yes, but ..what if ..”
And
Reach for your dreams
Soar to the turret
Stroll along the esplanade
Gird up your loins
And manifest your dream.
Remember, you are reaping the seeds,which have been sown, the fruits of your labour.
Gather up the seeds.
Remain true to yourself and proceed.”

Blogfest 2018: My Biz: My Way

21 February 2018 By Ntathu Allen

Hugs and blessings gentle friends, today’s blog post is written in response to The Blogfest 2018, organised by Judith Morgan, author and the blogger at The Small Business Oracle.

It is also written to acknowledge and celebrate the publication of Judith’s delightful book, Your Biz, Your Way. The book is aimed at business owners and folk interested in finding out more about what it means to run your own business. You can get a free chapter of Your Biz, Your Way and buy the book here.

The brief for the #blogfest 2018 is to write about your business and how you run it your way.

My blog post is one of the 50 blog posts, written by other small business owners who responded to Judith’s blogfest 2018. My blog post, alongside the others in this blogfest, is also featured on Judith’s blog where she shares her thoughts on our blog post entries. A simple strategy, which again highlights Judith’s skill in entrepreneurship and marketing and her commitment to supporting small businesses grow their business, our way.

So, let’s start.

Blogfest 2018

I have known Judith for many years. [Read more…] about Blogfest 2018: My Biz: My Way

Sharing My 2016 Goals And Dreams

15 January 2016 By Ntathu Allen Leave a Comment

Hugs and blessings Gentle Readers and how are you today?

Can you imagine we are already into the second week of 2016.

Where has the time flown?

Today’s blog is just a short message to check-in and see how you are and, to share some of my thoughts about my “2016 Goals and Dreams”, flowing through my heart.

How is 2016 opening up for you? How you feeling about allow more of what you want and desire into your life?

Like most people, I am hoping to make subtle changes in the way I live my life.

Like you, I am on a journey and with the turning of the New Year had a look at myself and know I’m not giving and performing at my best.

I know there is a lot more I can do to share, touch more hearts and [Read more…] about Sharing My 2016 Goals And Dreams

Motivational Message For Women – Morning Ritual Challenge Day 9

28 December 2015 By Ntathu Allen

Bless you Gentle Reader and how are you today?

Have you heard of morning rituals?

Like you I am proud to be a woman, however, like most of you, learning to accept and embrace my feminine power and strength has been a journey.

In today’s video, I share with you a short video about how I am learning to embrace and enjoy all aspects of my being as part of my morning ritual. I am currently participating in a 30 Day Morning Ritual Challenge and loving the group support, structure and benefits of consistently sticking with a morning routine.

Watch the video and I’d love to know your thoughts and feelings about being a woman.

You can also watch this video over on my Youtube Channel, just click here.

Final Thoughts

And if are interested in finding out more about the 30 Day Morning Ritual Challenge I am currently on, please check out this link for further details. Thank you.

Keep shining and having a beautiful day.

Ntathu

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